Act Now to Propel Your Writing Project To Joyful Completion

The 1:1 Writing Program With Rose is now accepting registrations for June start dates.

Is your story, essay, memoir or other piece of writing screaming to get out of your mind and onto paper? Did you start a project and lose your momentum mid-stream?  

Give it life and get it done!

The guidance and support provided through the five-week 1:1 Writing Program With Rose helps renew your focus, confidence and enthusiasm for writing and completing your project.

For details and to register, visit the Private Coaching page.

Its Magic - It's Magic!

Every writing contest judge, editor and instructor has a grammatical pet peeve. And so do readers. Mine is the misuse of "it is" and "it's." It's bad enough when I see their misuse in email and other casual communications. But when a reportedly professional publication misuses them, I cringe! It's enough to make me quit reading. I catch myself thinking, "If they can't get this right, how valid are their facts?"

If its and it's confuse you, here's an easy way to test which is correct.

• If you can replace the letters i-t-s with "it is," use it's, which is the contraction for "it is." For example: The liquid removes the stain immediately. It's magic!  (It is magic.)
• If you cannot replace the word with "it is," use its, which is a possessive pronoun. For example: The liquid removes the stain immediately. Its magic comes from a secret ingredient. Would it make sense to say "It is magic comes from a secret ingredient"? No. In this example, "its" is a possessive pronoun referring to the liquid. Instead of saying, "The liquid's magic comes from a secret ingredient," you can say, "Its magic comes from a secret ingredient."

The test: If you can replace the letters i-t-s with "it is," use "it's." If you can't, use "its." 

And never, ever use its'. The writing gods will have a hissy fit!

What Color IS Green?

As I look at the leafing trees on the Ozark Mountains, I'm struck by the question, "What color is green?" The slopes sport a full range of hues, from the palest, softest greens to the deepest, most vibrant ones.

A major challenge of descriptive writing is selecting the precise adjective to use. It needs to show the reader what's in the writer's mind. If I write "green," each reader will see what the color green looks like to her. But if I write "lime green," most readers will see green that is the color of a lime.

For a general audience, I like to choose words that most readers will identify with. For example: celery green, emerald green, forest green, iridescent green and so on.

Despite the wide selection of words available, when I look at all the beautiful shades of green as spring unfolds in the Ozarks, I'm at a loss for adequate descriptive adjectives. What color IS green?

What's Your Wacky Word?

Wacky words are words that thrive in our vocabulary but don't exist in the dictionary. Or if they do, we use them incorrectly.

No matter how many books we've read, how many classes we've attended or how many stories we've written, we all have a wacky word. They live independent lives, undetected by us. Rarely do people discover them on their own. We only find out about our wacky word when someone else notices it — and is willing to tell us.

My wacky word was foilage. I had no idea it ran rampant in my vocabulary until a guy I was dating pointed it out to me. I was lucky because I found out from a friend instead of from an editor or a client. And he was gentle about correcting me. He joked, "You've got foil on your mind from working all those years for the Aluminum Company of America."

That conversation is etched in my mind — and I've pronounced and written foliage correctly ever since. If he hadn't told me, foilage would probably still be in my vocabulary. (Truth is, I still prefer the sound of foilage.) I wonder how many other wacky words I have? I'll have to get bold and ask.

What's YOUR wacky word?

Why Bother To Have A Coach?

When I first heard about coaching 10 years ago, I wondered why all the buzz? Why would I pay someone to do what I ought to be able to do for myself?

I soon discovered why when I won a series of free sessions at a conference. I remember being awestruck time and again by my responses to exercises and questions. Many times words like these tumbled out of my mouth: “I didn’t realize how important that (goal, thing, person) is to me!”

Since discovering the value of coaching during that initial experience, I have regularly signed on for 1:1 and group coaching for different personal and professional goals.

Now, I also coach. My clients are writers. During each 5-week series, I have watched their writing creativity and expertise notably improve, even soar. As a coach, I facilitate their progress, but it’s their commitment to their intentions, goals and dreams that makes it happen.

Here are some of the benefits I have personally experienced by having a coach:

• Accountability to someone else to meet my personally-scheduled deadlines
• A nonjudgmental, compassionate listener
• Giving “voice” to my goals by stating them out loud to another person
• Being able to ask “dumb” questions without feeling embarrassed
• Valuing my professional growth by investing in it
• 1:1 access to the knowledge and expertise of a professional

What has been your experience with coaching? I’d love to know. If you have questions about coaching, send them my way. I’ll do my best to answer them. (You can send your comments and questions below.)